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Couple's challenge

I saw this 'couple's survey' on someone's Facebook status and thought it was a silly idea for a post!

I love reading 'get to know me' posts from other bloggers because I'm super nosy about other people's lives! This little set of questions is supposed to be answered about you and your significant other, so even though none of you know Josh, I thought this might be entertaining to fill out!

What are your middle names?

I don't have a middle name! My mum said that because she didn't give my older brother a middle name, it wouldn't be fair to let me or my sister have one. She's so weird! I remember making up middle names in primary school because I desperately wanted one. Josh's middle name is Thomas!

How long have you been together?

We've been together for just over two years now.

Who asked who out?

I don't think there was an official 'asking out' process! We met on Tinder which I was about to say is unconventional, but I suppose in this day and age, it isn't! But I guess, since I messaged him first, maybe I initiated things.

Whose siblings do you see most?

Neither, really. I don't live at home and I don't see my siblings that often. Josh doesn't live with his sister so I don't see her often either!

Do you have any children together?

Not right now, luckily! Josh can barely take care of himself! I'd like to say one day we will, but I think he'll take a lot of convincing!

Do you have any pets together?

I mean, he bought me some cacti and I decided they could be our children. But official pets? No. However, he's fully aware that as soon as we have our own place, I'm filling it with dogs.

Did you go to the same school?

Nope! I went to an all-girl's school. Also, as I mentioned, we met on Tinder so actually didn't know each other before. I don't think I could date anyone that knew me in high school anyway, because they've seen me through all my awkward puberty phases LOL.

Who is the most sensitive?

Me by far! Literally nothing bothers Josh, but I'm prone to low moods and I'm a big worrier. Sometimes, I don't cry for months then I'll just have a week of non-stop crying!

Where do you eat out most as a couple?

You'll always find us at some restaurant in the Trafford Centre! We're loving Gourmet Burger Kitchen at the moment, but Josh looooves Zizzi as well. If you have any restaurant recommendations you can definitely throw them our way!

Where is the furthest you have traveled together as a couple?

We have just got back from Amsterdam (read about that here!) which was our first holiday together.

Who has the craziest exes?

Neither of us, really! Which is quite lucky!

Who has the worst temper?

I don't think either of us has a temper... But I am definitely moody and he knows exactly how to piss me off, which results in me not talking to him for at least an hour each day.

Who does the cooking?

I'll be honest... We are so unhealthy when we are together! We basically never cook. We'll either eat out, get a takeaway or hope there's something in the freezer to put in the oven. I'm not having that when we move in together, though!

Who is more social?

Josh is literally always glued to his phone (I can hear his eyes rolling from here as he secretly stalks my blog and pretends he hasn't) but in the real world, I'm definitely more social. Josh hates all social events and I have to warn my friends not to be offended when he doesn't talk to them. He barely talks to me!

Who is the neat freak?

I'm not a neat freak - my room is pretty messy most of the time, but I keep on top of it way more than Josh does! I think in the two years we've been together, I've cleaned and tidied his bedroom and changed his bed sheets more often than he has in his life.

Who hogs the bed?

Probably me! I'm really needy at night, so I'll be right up on his side of the bed, all up in his personal space.

Do you get flowers often?

No, I never have! Just gonna leave that big hint sitting right there.

Who eats more?

Josh!! He's 6ft+ of just endless stomach, I swear. I've never seen a human able to eat that much. I used to think I ate a lot!


The original quiz was longer but I realise no one wants to know every detail of my relationship!

This was fun for me to answer and great because I know Josh will read it, even though he denies he reads my blog lol.

Feel free to copy the questions for yourself, and tweet me if you answer these on your own blog - I'd be interested to read about you and your partner! You could even make this into a survey about you and your best friend, sibling or a parent, if you didn't fancy doing it about relationships (minus the 'who asked who out' question!)

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  1. If I had a partner I'd certainly get involved, and it was great hearing about your relationship and love for one another xx


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